WHOLLY
Matched on what actually matters.
A dating experience built around depth — not just a photo.
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Free during launch · No card required
The Idea
Most apps start with a face. We start with who you are.
WHOLLY uses a 4-layer compatibility model to match you on emotional health, values alignment, intellectual connection, and life direction — before you ever see a photo.
How It Works
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Share your story
Twelve thoughtful prompts about your values, emotional world, and vision for life.
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We find alignment
99 data points scored across four dimensions of compatibility.
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Connect for real
Detailed match breakdowns first. Photos come later. No swiping.
The Four Layers
What we measure — and why it matters.
Emotional
35%
Attachment style, conflict resolution, emotional maturity and self-awareness.
Values
25%
Core beliefs, faith expression, moral framework and spiritual alignment.
Life Vision
25%
Purpose, ambition, lifestyle goals, and how you see the next decade.
Intellectual
15%
Curiosity, growth mindset, how you engage with ideas and the world.
Launch Pricing
Founding Member
$9.99 /month
Lock in this rate forever.
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Full 4-layer compatibility matching
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Detailed score breakdowns per match
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Unlimited profile browsing
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Priority early access to new features
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Messaging when it launches
A free tier is also available — build your profile and see basic matches at no cost.
Trust & Safety
Built to protect your heart and your data.
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Pastoral Verification
Blue Tick confirms church membership through your pastor. Gold Tick adds a personal character endorsement. Real accountability from real community.
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Covenant-First Culture
Every user signs a covenant committing to honesty, respect, and Spirit-led behavior. Violations result in account removal — no exceptions.
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Your Data Stays Yours
End-to-end encryption. Row-level security. Your questionnaire answers are never shared. We never sell your data or use it for ads.
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Active Moderation
Report any user at any time. Our team reviews every report within 24 hours. Community safety is non-negotiable.
Early Community
Join the founding members.
WHOLLY is in its founding season. The first wave of members shapes the culture, and founding members lock in launch pricing forever. This is the beginning of something different.
Finally, a platform that asks the right questions before showing me a face.
— Early tester, Sydney
The covenant changed everything. It filters out people who aren't serious.
— Founding member, Melbourne
I've never felt safer on a dating app. The pastoral verification is brilliant.
— Beta user, Brisbane
Questions
Frequently asked
How does matching work?
You answer 12 sections of questions covering theology, emotional health, conflict style, and life vision. Our algorithm scores 99 data points across four weighted dimensions using a geometric mean — penalising imbalance rather than averaging it out. You see detailed breakdowns, not just a percentage.
What denomination is this for?
WHOLLY is for Spirit-filled Christians across all denominations. Catholic, Protestant, Pentecostal, non-denominational — what matters is a living faith and a heart for intentional relationship.
What happens after I match with someone?
You see a detailed compatibility breakdown across all four dimensions. Photos are revealed progressively based on your subscription tier. Messaging opens once both users express interest.
Is my data safe?
Yes. Your data is encrypted in transit and at rest, stored on AWS with row-level security. Your questionnaire answers are never shown to other users — only your compatibility scores are shared.
Can I delete my account?
Absolutely. You can request deletion at any time from Settings. After a 30-day grace period (in case you change your mind), all your data is permanently removed.
What is the covenant?
Every user signs a covenant before joining — a commitment to honesty, respect, and Spirit-led behavior. It's what sets WHOLLY apart. Violate it, and your account is removed.
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