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WHOLLY

Spirit.  Soul.  Body.  Matched.

The dating app designed to match you on
what actually matters.

Photos come last.

GET STARTED

Free during launch  •  No card required

OUR APPROACH

Go on your last first date.

WHOLLY is built on the belief that real connection starts from the inside out. We match you on spiritual depth, emotional health, intellectual connection, and life vision — in that order. Photos come last.

01

Tell Us Who You Are

12 steps of thoughtful onboarding — your faith walk, theology, spiritual gifts, attachment style, and life vision.

02

We Match What Matters

Our 4-layer algorithm scores spiritual depth first, then emotional health, intellectual connection, and life compatibility.

03

Connect Without Bias

No photos until mutual match. You'll know their heart, theology, and vision before you ever see their face.

THE FOUR LAYERS

What makes a WHOLLY match

Spiritual Depth
40% weight

Faith walk alignment, theological conviction, and authentic Spirit-filled experience.

Emotional Mapping
25% weight

Attachment style, conflict resolution, and emotional intelligence indicators.

Intellectual
20% weight

How you think about faith, culture, ethics, and the questions that shape your worldview.

Life Vision
15% weight

Ministry calling, family planning, financial philosophy, and where your life is heading.

THE PASTORAL TICK

Know who you're talking to

Every WHOLLY member can request a blue verification tick from a leader in their church — not just the senior pastor, but whoever knows them best. Youth pastor, young adults leader, kids ministry, worship, connect group host. It means someone in real church leadership is willing to vouch for this person.

Verified by Leadership

A pastor or department leader from your church confirms you're an active, genuine member of the community.

Any Department

Youth, young adults, kids ministry, worship, connect groups, campus pastors — whoever knows you and your walk.

Visible Trust

Your blue tick shows on your profile so every match knows: this person is the real deal.

OUR COVENANT

Every member agrees before entering

MY INTENTION — choose one

I am pursuing marriage.
I am here to build a meaningful, God-honouring relationship that leads to marriage.

MY COMMITMENT

I commit to honesty, authenticity, and respect in every interaction.
I will not use prophetic language, dreams, or spiritual authority to pressure or manipulate another user.
I commit to seeking God's will and Spirit-led behavior in my relationships.
I understand that WHOLLY reserves the right to remove anyone who violates this covenant.

SIMPLE PRICING

Start free. Upgrade when you're ready.

Free Trial
$0
7 days
  • Full onboarding experience
  • See your compatibility scores
  • Limited daily matches
Premium
$14.99
per month
  • Everything in Standard
  • Priority matching
  • Advanced compatibility insights
  • SELAH counseling access

READY?

Your last first date is waiting.